Portrait of the artist as a former child star
Part 5 - The O-T-H-E-R
by Ellen Barry
In the worst instances, former child stars sink into deep wells of alienation.
They walk among us, but they are strangers to certain human customs. Jeannie
Russell, who played Margaret in Dennis the Menace and now counsels child
actors for the Screen Actors Guild, describes the moment this way: "It's like
waking up in the middle of the desert and realizing your tribe has wandered off
without you."
For Russell, the moment came when she was 17, and "knew, beyond the shadow of
a doubt, that I would not work again." Someone asks, for the first time, what
they want to be when they grow up. At some point it happens to every single one
of them: the ride is over, and the long walk begins.
And, inevitably, part of the star is frozen at this traumatic moment in
adolescence. In The Official Mickey Mouse Club Book, an otherwise upbeat
retrospective, former Mouseketeer Karen Pendleton recalls the hazing she faced
when she entered public school: "All the kids crowded around me at lunchtime.
My mother had said to always be pleasant, so I really tried to be, but I was
scared. They'd ask me for my autograph and then tear it up. One day a kid came
by and cut my hair with scissors. Another one threw a worm in my mouth."
Reflecting on this subject, Petersen seethes with the wrath of the social
reformer. The way he sees it, child stars are knowingly stripped of their
social skills and launched defenseless into the world. "We know that children
can be cruel and vindictive, and yet we will deliberately turn one child into
the Other -- that's O-t-h-e-r -- and then cast them back into school after
starring in a television series, and then tell him, `It's normal, take care of
yourself.' Well, you know, you get the living pants beat out of you."
And Russell, who once appeared with a rehabilitated Dana Plato on a
television talk show, says this sense of alienation can account for a whole
range of sociopathic behaviors. Russell, a chiropractor, has this far stayed on
the right side of the law, but she says she knows exactly why Plato held up
that video store. All the former child stars understand.
"We can finish each other's sentences," says Russell. "It's a common bond,
even when there's a 30-year age difference. I can only imagine that it's like
people who claim to be abductees. We're like the Other."
Ellen Barry can be reached at ebarry[a]phx.com.