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KATE COSTELLO | former Portlander now studying feminist and queer theory in literature at Duke University | "In my utopian world, there would be no men and no women. The categories of sex are just one way of interpreting bodies, one that is inextricable from heterosexism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia, to mention only a few of the discriminatory and phobic attitudes linked to our perception of beings as sexed. In my utopian world we would all have different bodies but we wouldn't think of them in terms of the sexes. Among other things, this would entail deemphasizing the importance and shifting the signification of genitals. Think about how much more interesting and varied sexual experiences would be if we could think more radically beyond the zones that have been scripted as erogenous according to a certain matrix of binary sex! (Of course, some people are already approaching the body and erotic practices in these ways and I salute them!)"

KATIE DIAMOND | radical queer comic artist, activist | "I like the idea of a secondary sex-characteristic Home Depot store. I could order a beard for Tuesday, bigger breasts for Wednesday, and a mullet for Friday. It's not about body-modification for self-esteem's sake; it's about people's gender being able to be seen the way they feel."

LIZZIE ANDERSON | "woman of many identities," one-half of Pussyfoot Burlesque | "I saw these two guys wearing "Consent is sexy' T-shirts. I was like, 'Oh my god. My dream is coming true.'"

LIZZIE ANDERSON | "That women were shape-shifters: they could be 'out' feminist tokens, like She-Ra!"

LIZZIE ANDERSON | "Today I was thinking, 'if I was a feminist superhero, what would my secret power be?' I would have spidey senses, a bell would go off in my bat cave or whatever when someone was in need: I'd know. I suppose I'd be your basic superhero that could stop misogyny before it happened. Oh. And cure AIDS. With magical blood, or something."

MEA TAVARES | sensitivity trainer for gender and sexuality in Maine state government agencies and local schools, actor, activist | "That people would be free of societal myths around beauty and 'correct sexuality.' And would feel good consensually expressing their sexuality without fear and in known, like absolutely known, safety. And have rollickingly good, empowered, self-actualized, loving sexual encounters with consenting partners."

MEA TAVARES | "It would be fabulous, in an ideal world, for me to be able to fluctuate my gender expression without fear of either being targeted because I am perceived as female or being seen as a potential threat because I'm perceived as male."

MEGAN HANNAN | director of public affairs, Planned Parenthood of Northern New England, Maine | "My fantasy is this: women are free to have and enjoy sex, with whomever they please, and not have to hide it, not have to feel guilty about it. Humans are sexual beings, and Americans have gone a long way to create barriers, guilt, and an unhealthy relationship with sex. We should enjoy it, safe from STDs, unintended pregnancy, and societal images of Madonna / whore."

WENDY CHAPKIS | sociology professor and director of the Women and Gender Studies program at USM, author | "My feminist fantasy is that we all get a lot smarter about what is and is not a problem. Difference, for example, is not a problem and equality is not a 'special interest' despite what some of our state leaders seem to think."

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Koba39

I personally find this article rambling and incoherent. But then again I am a male, so perhaps it is not supposed to make sense to me.

I understand there is been invented a device to punish rapists, which apparently is another sign of "female empowerment". Just a few questions: How do you think a rapist would react when he is hurt like that? Simply walk away? What about if it is a group rape? One man gets hurt, but how would the others react?

And no - I don't really buy the notion that only women are the sole victims of male violence. Ever heard about prison rape? I also don't think that men are the sole sexual predators, but it is entirely correct that it is far more difficult for our culture to accept that women can abuse men or children. Just a few years ago it was standard operating policy for hotlines in Great Britain to hang up when children called for help and told that their moms or other women were sexually abusing them. Since their claims were not taking seriously the problem simply didn't exist. Very simple, but not very true. When the hotlines began to take the claims seriously the numbers of phone calls simply went through the roof.

A few numbers: In 2008 2.142 children called a hotline called Childline in Great Britain and reported sexual abuse by women. 61 percent of those reported to be sexually abused by their own mothers. The total number of reports grew with 132 percent.

To be 100 percent clear: I believe in gender equality, but that doesn't mean I believe in feminism. Perhaps it used to be about justice in the past, but it is certainly not the case today and this article is ample proof. Feminism is simply nothing more than a power-grap and is based on pure hatred toward men. This article is actually the usual feminist male-bashing, misandric propaganda in an effort to prove, that women are terribly oppressed, that only men are evil etc. I am simply amazed that such ideas can still be printed, but of course male-bashing has become an entire industry in the United States.
Posted: April 29 2011 at 10:40 AM

Laura Hetrick

Koba39: You live in a world where you don't have to fear what's in your drink, where you don't have to fear walking alone, where you don't have to avoid eye contact because the other person will think it's a come-on, where you don't have to choose clothes that look nice or else you're an ugly hag but not too nice or else you're a slut asking for it, where you don't get whistled at or leered at or felt up because simply existing apparently entitles everyone else to your body. Some vocal feminists do hate men, I won't deny that. But feminism, for me, is about creating safety for women. Feminism for you, as a man, probably seems like an attack on your comfortable state of being in power. Well, yes, it kind of is, because that power excludes women. Your nice comfortable status quo is very uncomfortable for me. As a man, you can't experience that. You can only do your best to empathize and listen to what women are saying in articles like this.
Posted: April 29 2011 at 11:20 AM

Koba39

As a matter of fact, I live in a neighborhood with gang violence and crime - so the idea that men never experience fear, violence or crime is ridiculous. Most inmates in prisons are men and most victims of crime are also men. But of course there is a strong tendency among feminists to dismiss male victims by saying it is their own fault, because they are victims of other men. For some reason the same logic (or lack of it) doesn't apply the other way around. If a women gets hurt anywhere in the world it is apparently every man's fault.

Your idea that I have power because I am a man is also simply hilarious. Yes, I was a CEO in a big company I would probably have a lot of power, but guess what - most men are at the top of society, which feminists never forget. But they are certainly also at the rock bottom of society, which feminists always keep forgetting. If you want to have a piece of my "power" you are most welcome, but I think you will be disappointed.

Once again - in case you didn't get the first time - I believe in gender equality. I have even defended women against angry boyfriends or ex-husbands, even though I don't consider myself to be especially brave. But I have a long time ceased to believe that feminism is about that.
Posted: April 29 2011 at 11:44 AM

Mathew

Laura, you don't live in a world where you're scared your bitter ex might tell a rape lie to the cops. You don't live in a world where paranoid mothers make you scared to be alone with children. You don't live in world where you're scared to check your own childs nappy when you're out, in case someone calls the cops. You don't live in a world were someone of the other gender can beat you in public, but f you try to defend yourself you'll be arrested for abuse.

Feminism is an evil hateful ideology, it's sole goal is the demonization of men.
And feminists are evil hateful people.
Posted: May 03 2011 at 9:58 AM

Carlin Whitehouse

Come up with your most exhaustive list of male-experienced oppression, and the list for women will quadruple it - at least! Spouting hate and ignorance is no substitute for reality - a world in which men dominate the institutions and the mainstream culture: legislatures, judge's benches, law enforcement, business, academia, media outlets, etc. As James Brown said, this is a man's world. No doubt about it.
Feminism, contrary to your ill-conceived theories, is about EQUALITY. Not special interests, or special rights. A world in which our daughters don't have to fear being raped - to the tune of ONE IN FOUR.
And guess what? Our sons are raped too - ONE IN TWELVE.
98% of the time sexual assaults are perpetrated BY MEN. I hope that's no surprise to you.
Yes. violence happens to men too. Of course it does. Is it women's violence they're most likely to fear. No. It's other men.
No one is saying that men are inherently violent, raping beasts. I'm not and you probably aren't, either (although your words don't shine brightly on your prospects). I believe in an all-encompassing view of masculinity, where it includes mixed martial arts AND tender loving fatherhood, drinkin beers with buddies AND acceptance of our gay brothers, hot sex AND consent. ALL these things are good and right.
If "women done you wrong" at some point, or you've lost custody of your kids along the way, don't be taking it out on feminists. We just want a world where freedom and justice prevails.
Posted: May 06 2011 at 1:16 PM
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